Erika Jayne Revealed What's "On the Table" Now in Her Dating Life

   

Erika Jayne is now spending some time in New York City as her second stint in Broadway's Chicago gets underway, but is she planning on dating while she's in the Big Apple?

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"Yes, it’s on the table," she said during an interview with The Daily Dish in January 2025 about dating while she's in New York. "Of course it’s on the table, yeah."

That said, the performer is single at the moment, and said that she's been spending some time focusing on herself before jumping back into a relationship. 

"I have done a lot of work on myself and pulling myself together, rebuilding my life," The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills cast member said about what the last four years have been like for her since she filed for divorce from Tom Girardi. 

Now, she said it's "a time to be open and to have fun."

Would Erika Jayne get married again after her divorce from Tom Girardi?

As Erika continues to navigate her split from Tom, she's not thinking of walking down the aisle again. "Like I said years ago, I don’t think I’ll ever be legally married to anyone ever again," she explained. ​​​​"But, of course, you know, the idea of having someone in your life is a nice, is a nice idea."

Erika said the same thing during an appearance on the Two Ts in a Pod podcast back in August 2024. 

"I don't think so," she told host Teddi Mellencamp about whether she wants to get married again. "I don't feel that that's where I'm at."

"I want to see what else I can do because, if you're involved with a man, and certainly with a powerful man, there's a price to pay. First off, any man," she continued. "Nothing is free in this world. And you know, the more powerful, the more wealthy, the more price."

Erika Jayne wearing a black dress sitting in her living room.

Erika Jayne shares a piece of dating advice

Now that Erika has two marriages under her belt, she's looking at dating in a different way these days. 

"I'll say this: Please take time to get to know who you’re dating before you make any sort of commitment, whether you move in together, you get engaged, or you get married," she advised. 

"Please give it enough time," Erika continued. "And I mean like a year or more before you start to see, and let the hormones wear off just for a second so you can actually see the person for who they are. It takes time. People put their best foot forward. They put masks on to present the best version of themselves in the first six, nine months. It’s when that is over that you start to see who the people are. Look for that."

She also noted that "life is long."

"There are many fish in the sea and if something doesn’t work out, I guarantee you it wasn't meant to be and there’s something better. Don’t worry. You can have many loves throughout your life," she concluded. "It’s going to be okay."