“Her Dreams Matter Too”: Love Is Blind’s Brett Brown Says He’s Willing to Wait for Kids, Even If It Hurts, Because She Deserves to Choose Her Own Timing

Love Is Blind’s Brett Brown is opening up in a rare, emotional confession about love, sacrifice — and the quiet ache of putting his own dreams on hold for the woman he loves most: Tiffany Pennywell.

“Do I want to be a dad? Yes. More than anything,” Brett admitted. “But I want Tiffany to feel whole first. I want her to chase her dreams before we chase diapers.”

A Love Built on Mutual Respect — And Patience

While many fans have praised Brett and Tiffany as one of Love Is Blind’s strongest success stories, Brett is getting real about the conversations behind the scenes — ones that don’t always end in agreement, but always begin with love.

“We’re not on the same page yet when it comes to kids,” he confessed. “And yeah… that hurts sometimes. But it would hurt more to force something she’s not ready for.”

Brett says watching other couples move into parenthood has brought up unexpected emotions — including envy, longing, and self-doubt.

“Sometimes I wonder, am I doing something wrong? Is there something missing in me that she doesn’t feel ready yet?” he said. “But I always come back to this: Her dreams matter, too. I don’t get to rush her just because I’m eager.”

“I’d Rather Wait for Her Than Have It With Anyone Else”

Brett shared that Tiffany is still deeply invested in her career and personal growth, and he admires that about her — even when it means waiting longer for the life he pictured.

“She’s thriving right now. And I’d never want to dim that light,” he said. “Even if it means shelving baby names and morning cuddles for a while longer.”

When asked what keeps him grounded during the waiting, Brett didn’t hesitate:

“She does. Her laugh. The way she loves me. The life we’ve built — it’s already beautiful. A kid would add to it, but it’s not the only thing that gives it meaning.”

Love Without Pressure

In a world where timelines, expectations, and social media “baby goals” dominate the narrative, Brett wants to remind people that real love doesn’t push — it protects.

“If we have kids next year or in five, it won’t change this: I love her for who she is right now, not who I hope she’ll become,” he said. “And when the time comes, we’ll both know — because we’ll be ready together.”