Several contestants, including Zoe McGrady and Carolina Sofia, have centered themselves in the drama. These contestants have made a reputation as the season’s villains, but the feuds are not one-sided. Every contestant on Grant’s season has contributed to the animosity and Grant, as a diplomatic lead, has struggled to focus on the show’s ultimate goal: finding love. As Grant juggles his emotions and the women’s feelings, his well-intentioned search has suffered. Grant may not find a genuine connection under these circumstances, and trust me, it wouldn't be his fault.
Grant Has Been Nothing But A Gentleman All Season
Grant Isn't Expected To Break Up Fights
Grant’s is too mild-tempered to discourage the fights. By the second episode, the contestants were pushing boundaries. Zoe started drama when she pulled Grant from the group date for a private conversation. The tech engineer claimed this move was in place of her "practice shot," but she ended up monopolizing Grant’s time and stepping on toes.
Grant seemed flattered by the proposition, but their one-on-one rooftop conversation sparked rage.
This was evident later in the episode when Zoe proceeded to interrupt one-on-one conversations between Grant and the other contestants. Grant allowed the interruptions and subsequent fights between Alli Jo Hinkes and Zoe. He shouldn't be expected to handle fights between the women. The show is a competition, and the prize is Grant’s heart. Fights are inevitable and frankly promoted by producers.
Carolina Is The Reason For Most Of The Drama
Carolina Pushed Boundaries
In week 4, Carolina was still complaining about watching Grant date other women, as if that was not the format for the past 28 seasons of the show. For the women who never received a one-on-one, like Juliana, the comments were frustrating. Carolina seemed ungrateful.
Carolina was still focused on her hardships during their exciting trip to Madrid. She made a somewhat harmless comment that ended up setting off Juliana. She questioned the show’s time constraints and offered:
“How do you get engaged after one date?”
Juliana Even Stirred The Pot With The Carolina Drama
Juliana Inserted Herself
Carolina’s comment, while tone-deaf, was blown out of proportion. Juliana was understandably upset as she had not received her date yet. She felt Carolina was implying uncertainty, not only with the show but also regarding her connection with Grant. Juliana pulled her aside for a hostile confrontation.
Juliana may have had the right intentions but misinterpreted Carolina’s statement.
Juliana’s frustrations were valid, but she crossed a line when she reported to Grant that Carolina was talking badly of him. Carolina never implied that she disliked Grant. The star only expressed concerns about their few weeks with him and the show’s format. Juliana’s overreaction was not surprising, but it felt unnecessary. If Carolina were unsure of her connection with Grant, it was her prerogative to leave.
Grant is emotionally mature enough to recognize a lack of commitment. All the drama between the women left Grant desperately consoling them. He has been far more busy comforting the women than enjoying his time. While he may not nip the fights in the bud, he has done everything in his power to assuage the aftermath. This dynamic isn’t fair for the lead.
Grant Listens To The Women Unlike Past Leads
Grant Deserves Better
Grant’s kind-hearted nature has made decision-making difficult.He has taken the time to hear out all perspectives before coming to conclusions. I think Grant has been tirelessly working through the drama rather than focusing on his needs. These conditions do not foster a healthy environment. Grant didn’t have a moment to breathe.
While The Bachelor is recognized as a drama-packed show, Grant has been so bombarded with problems that he can’t focus on the ultimate goal. The lead may, once again, be set up for failure. If Grant has any chance at love, the dynamics will need to change. I believe Grant is genuine in his pursuits and deserves a better, less problematic opportunity to find true love.
