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Javi Marroquin had a lot to say about his ex-wife/ baby mama Kail Lowry, and on Monday, the former Teen Mom 2 dad took to Instagram Live to unleash his fury and spill tea on everything from Kail’s (alleged) secret new boyfriend, her (alleged) lack of mothering and more!
Javi’s public scorching of Kail comes somewhat as a surprise, as the exes came together in March (along with Javi’s now-wife Lauren Comeau) on Kail’s Barely Famous podcast to discuss Javi’s decision to move to Virginia, and to talk about how much their (sometimes very strained) co-parenting of son Lincoln had improved over the last few months.
Over the course of his long Live, Javi blasted Kail for allegedly neglecting her parental duties for their son Lincoln— and for (allegedly) showing up to one of Lincoln’s sporting events with a new boyfriend— whom Javi claims Kail is planning to move into her Delaware home. (Javi also basically stated that Kail and her fiancé Elijah Scott have broken up, due to the cheating scandal that surfaced in March.)
Even though fans advised Javi to hush up and not air out Kail’s dirty laundry on the Internet, he stood firm in his decision to publicly spill the tea.
“I’m sick of [people saying], ‘Don’t do this on the Internet,'” he said. “I’m sick of it because I stayed quiet for years…on the behavior [of Kail’s] that’s condoned. The behavior that’s condoned by you guys that follow this person. The behavior that’s enabled. So ‘don’t do it on the Internet?’ This is the only way this is going to get through!”
Here are the biggest bombshells Javi revealed during his tell-all Live. (The Ashley would like to remind you that the following information is from statements made by Javi and The Ashley can’t confirm them to be true or false at this point.)
Kail has a new boyfriend whom she’s allegedly planning to move into her home now that Elijah’s gone:
According to Javi, Kail showed up to Lincoln’s sporting event this past weekend with “a new boyfriend.”
“She was 40 minutes late to practice, to show up to practice with this guy…Come to find out this person has been around since April, allegedly,” he said.
Javi claimed that he actually knows the guy Kail is allegedly dating now, given that they grew up around the same area of Allentown, Pennsylvania.
“We have mutual friends,” he said. “So that got brought up to me… so allegedly he’s coming to Delaware. Soon enough he will be moved in. He might not be moving in yet, but soon enough he will be moving in.”
Javi made it clear that he doesn’t care who Kail dates.
“I don’t care that she has a new boyfriend!” he said. “I care that I am being told that he is moving— allegedly—close to the vicinity or the same house [as Kail]. I’m sure he’s had sleepovers. We’re adults. It’s mind-blowing to me that a mother could do this to her children. Not even just Lincoln. Now I’m speaking as a whole, all seven of them.
Javi is upset because Lincoln thinks Kail’s habit of bringing new men to live in the house is normal:
Javi became choked up when he stated that Lincoln thinks Kail’s behavior regarding men is normal.
“It’s not normal!” he said while crying. “Crazy, so crazy. And I’m tired of keeping my mouth shut for co-parenting. I’m tired of everyone in my DMs [asking] ‘How is co-parenting with Lauren and Kail?’
“It will never be OK, because we do not respect someone like [Kail] with those morals!” Javi said. “With those actions, I do not respect someone like that. Just because I keep it civil and just because I can say hello to you at sporting events, does not mean I respect you. Nor do I want Lauren and [Kail] to have a relationship. That is why we will never co-parent. Lauren and I will never co-parent [with her].”
“I know that Lincoln will see her true colors, but that shouldn’t take the extra work that I shouldn’t have to be doing, that is my point!” Javi continued. “My point is I shouldn’t have to pick up the pieces over there. At some point, people have to grow up. At some point you have to realize the damage you are doing to my son.”
Javi stated that he was purposely refraining from discussing any of Kail’s other six kids. (As fans know, she shares eldest son Isaac with Jo Rivera; sons Creed and Lux with Chris Lopez; and twins Valley and Verse and son Rio with Elijah.)
“When are you going to realize the damage it is doing that I will have to fix? I will have to tell [Lincoln] it is not normal!” Javi continued.
Lincoln was devastated when Kail broke up with Elijah:
Javi stated that Lincoln took Kail’s breakup with Elijah hard.
“When she broke up with the other guy, Lincoln literally cried in bed to me,” he said. “He was saying how hurtful…Lincoln cried when Elijah moved out. Lincoln cried to me, in bed, about how hurt he was.”
(As The Ashley previously reported in March, a girl on TikTok accused Elijah of cheating on Kail with her just a few months after their twins, Valley and Verse, were born. The alleged cheating happened during a cruise in 2024.)
“[Lincoln] didn’t think that [Elijah] would do that. And I told him, ‘Listen, dude. Everybody makes mistakes. I’ve made mistakes. I did that.’ I told him, ‘Everybody makes mistakes. It’s up to Elijah to fix it, and build that trust again.’ I was trying to get him through it.”
Javi claimed that he told Kail how upset Lincoln was over the breakup.
“Now, knowing that, as a mother, how can you do the things you do? Bring another man into his life. When did they break up, April? And what are we in, June? Not even two months?
“…how do you bring this other man into his life and then, not only that, but– the word on the street, allegedly— is that this man is moving in [with Kail and the kids],” Javi continued. “This man has sold his stuff in Pennsylvania to move to Delaware!”
Javi said that, because Lincoln is 11 now, he will form whatever opinion he wants to about Kail’s (alleged) new live-in lover.
“He’s going to grow whatever opinions he has on her, and whatever opinions he has on me,” he said. “So he’s almost 12…it’s not like the babies’ age like Lux and Creed. Lincoln will form his own opinion about that.”
Javi later stated that he only appeared on Kail’s podcast in March because Kail was with Elijah at the time and “things were different then.”
“Things are different now that Elijah’s not there and she is a single person having to do everything [for the kids],” he said, adding that he thinks Kail will likely post a lot of family-centered content after his Live to do damage control.
“How does she do it as a mom of seven? She doesn’t,” he said. “She has help.”
Kail won’t let Lincoln move to Virginia with Javi:
Javi and Kail revealed on her podcast in March that they decided Kail will keep Lincoln for the school year and Javi will get him on school breaks. Now, however, it seems that Javi is not so keen on that agreement, given Kail’s new (alleged) roomie.
“You’re telling me my son can’t come to live with me— and I’m only speaking on Lincoln— my son can’t come with me because he’s better off with you?” he said. “How does that make sense? And I’m sick of it!”
Later, Javi aired his feelings about Kail keeping Lincoln away from him even while she’s out of town.
“Why are you not giving him to me when you are not in town?” Javi asked. “I am mind-blown! Why is this person’s dad watching him when I am in town?… I’m sick of it. My son deserves to be with me during the school year. Point blank, period.”
Javi stated that he is about to get Lincoln for the whole summer, but that he will have to use his time to “fix everything that he gets exposed to over there.”
“My heart hurts doing that,” he said. “…that is not co-parenting and I’m sick of it.”
Javi stated that he spent about $10,000 in court trying to fight to get Lincoln to live with him during the school year, but he was not successful.
“The judge is gonna be in the mom’s favor, is ultimately what it was, so I took the best deal I thought I could get,” he said.
Kail has become absent-minded regarding her duties for Lincoln:
“I’ve been having my concerns,” Javi said. “[Kail] doesn’t pick him up from school, is late to…[Lincoln’s] sporting events. She doesn’t know about Lincoln’s events, so an hour before game time I have to scramble around. Whatever.”
“I’d be so embarrassed,” Javi said later. “How could she even show her face at [Lincoln’s] soccer? Forty minutes late with someone else?”
Javi said he had previously refrained from airing out Kail’s dirty skivvies online because he was trying to keep the peace with her.
“I am at peace, I’m happy with my life, I’m happy, so let me address things to her, 100 percent,” he said.
Kail has carefully crafted her image:
“But she puts on this fake persona of ‘Oh I’m such a good mom.’ She posts pictures after that fact…” Javi said.
“Everything has been so calculated,” he said later. “Everything she does is calculated! Allegedly, everything she does is calculated and you guys fall for it. Everybody that enables her falls for it and says this person is a great mom— enough is enough! She’s enabled her circle. If anyone in her circle says that this is OK, they need an eval[uation] too!”
Javi then stated that he has cut off anyone who has maintained a relationship with Kail.
“Unfriended. I don’t want to see your content, I don’t want you to see my content,” he said. “Don’t want none of that! Because these people in her circle enable her… all her friends are enablers.
“All she does is post lies! All she does is talk about lies!” Javi declared. “With this type of person, everything she does is calculated. She wants you guys to think she’s around all the kids.
Chris Lopez was telling the truth:
In a surprising turn of events, Javi declared that Kail’s third baby daddy has been speaking the truth in his online rants about her.
“Everything Chris has ever said has always been right,” Javi declared. “I just get bitched at any time I communicate with Chris. Not by Lauren— that person [Kail] always f**king calls me and bitches me out.”
“I just want you guys to know what we— not even just me— but what [all Kail’s baby daddies] have to deal with,” he said. “Chris is the only one who’s ever said anything.”
Javi predicts Kail will file a lawsuit against him for his Live:
Javi stated that he knows he will “get in trouble” for spilling Kail’s tea, and is expecting Kail to file a lawsuit against him.
