Joey Graziadei Spills the Truth About Who’s Really ‘In Charge’ in His Long-Distance Relationship with Kelsey Anderson

The Bachelor season 28 star Joey Graziadei revealed who's really in charge in his relationship with his fiancée, Kelsey Anderson. Joey and Kelsey got engaged during The Bachelor season 28, and they were inseparable until Joey won Dancing With The Stars season 33, alongside his professional dance partner, Jenna Johnson. Because of this, Joey and Kelsey are now in a long-distance relationship as he travels the country with the DWTS Live 2025 tour. This has led to breakup rumors for the couple, but they insist that they're still going strong.

In a series of Instagram stories, Joey joked that Kelsey is actually in charge in their relationship. Joey and Kelsey attended the Suits LA premiere, about which he posted two Instagram stories. In one of them, he wore a suit, and he captioned the post, "When I think I'm in charge." In the next one, Kelsey appeared in a suit with him, and the caption read, "But who is actually in charge [salute emoji]."

In another Instagram story, Joey posted the results of a poll in which he asked his followers to vote about whether he should get a buzz cut again. Joey wrote, "It was a resounding no from the votes," and revealed that 76% of the people said no, while 24% said yes. He captioned the post, "Good thing @kelseyanderson would never let me buzz my head again [laughing emoji]."

What Joey & Kelsey’s Relationship Dynamics Mean Amid Breakup Rumors

Joey Would Do Anything To Make Kelsey Happy

While Joey joked about Kelsey being in charge of their relationship, the truth is that they seem to have an equal partnership, in which there's no power struggle. Joey would do anything to make Kelsey happy, and she'd do the same for him. This is especially true because she's willing to be in a long-distance engagement with him while he performs on the DWTS Live 2025 tour. Neither one of them is controlling, and there doesn't seem to be any truth to the breakup rumors.

Our Take On Kelsey Refusing To Let Joey Buzz His Hair

Joey Has Buzzed His Hair In The Past

While Joey joked that Kelsey would never let him buzz his hair again, he's done it before, which proves that she wouldn't really prevent him from having the hairstyle that he wanted. She loves Joey for who he is on the inside, so his outside appearance wouldn't affect their relationship. The fact that Joey polled his followers for advice proves that he wasn't completely sold on the idea either, because he would've just done it if he really wanted to.

Although Joey and Kelsey have been the subject of breakup rumors since The Bachelor season 28 ended, it comes with the territory of being in a public relationship. However, the truth is that they seem to be closer than ever. Joey and Kelsey have been through a lot since they got engaged on November 12, 2023, but their love has endured and is so strong. They're one of Bachelor Nation's best couples, and they're sure to live happily ever after.