Love Is Blind's Lydia Velez Gonzalez Exposes Tensions with Milton Johnson: ‘I Want Him to Love Me More’ — And Hopes Kids Will Bring Them Closer

Lydia Velez Gonzalez, who captivated audiences with her emotional journey on Love Is Blind, is now reflecting on her relationship with fiancé Milton Johnson and the complexities of blending their lives together.

Despite their undeniable connection, Lydia admits that she wishes Milton would express his love for her more deeply — a sentiment she’s been open about with fans and those closest to her.

“I know Milton loves me,” Lydia said in a recent candid interview. “But there are times when I just want to feel it more. I want to feel like he’s choosing me every single day, in every way. It’s been an emotional ride, and sometimes I just need him to show me more of his heart.”

The Desire for a Deeper Connection
While their bond is filled with passion, Lydia has always been someone who wears her heart on her sleeve, and sometimes, she feels as though Milton’s quieter, more reserved nature leaves her wanting more. “I want to be loved in a way that’s loud and proud. That’s my truth,” Lydia confessed.

For Milton, expressing vulnerability hasn’t always come easily, but he’s committed to showing up for Lydia, even as they face the challenges of building a life together.

Looking Ahead: A Family of Their Own
In addition to navigating their emotional journey, Lydia also has big plans for their future. She’s shared openly that she envisions having children with Milton someday, believing that expanding their family could help deepen their bond and unite them even more.

“I want kids, a family, something real,” Lydia revealed. “I believe having children together could help us navigate our differences. They’d be the glue that holds us closer. It’s not just about us anymore — it’s about creating a legacy.”

Overcoming the Tension
As with any relationship, Lydia and Milton have had their fair share of disagreements, particularly when it comes to their differing visions for the future. While Lydia is ready to move quickly toward starting a family, Milton remains more cautious, wanting to take things one step at a time.

“I get it,” Lydia said, “but sometimes I feel like I need more than just words. I need to see it — I need him to show me that he’s fully in this with me.”

For now, Lydia is holding on to the hope that as they continue their journey together, they’ll find common ground and build the kind of life they both desire — one filled with love, commitment, and a future together as a family.

“It’s all about finding that balance, and I’m hopeful we’ll get there,” she said with a smile. “Because, at the end of the day, I want him to love me more, and I want to give him that same love in return.”