Bar and Ashley have been romantically involved for a decade. They started dating in 2015 and welcomed their daughter two years later. They joined the cast of Teen Mom: Young and Pregnant in 2018, and their reality TV journey continued when they were cast on Teen Mom 2 in December 2020 after Chelsea Houska’s departure. From the start, they brought major drama to the franchise, delivering some of the most explosive storylines on the show. It seemed like they finally reached their fairytale ending in April 2021 when they secretly eloped. No family attended the ceremony, and it even took a while for the public to realize they had tied the knot. Unfortunately, their marriage didn’t last long, and their split has been just as chaotic as their relationship has always been.
What Went Wrong Between Bar and Ashley?
The beginning of the end came in March 2023, when Bar and Ashley announced their separation after two years of marriage. But instead of quietly parting ways, their drama escalated as Bar refused to accept the divorce, attempting to win Ashley back. This led to a terrifying incident in July 2024 that resulted in Bar’s arrest.
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Ashley later recounted the traumatic experience on Teen Mom, saying in a confessional, “When I first got into my house, I see Bar sitting on my couch. I could tell that he was pissed. Bar and I are going back and forth, just arguing. Then I hear knocking on my door.”
She said she was able to inform her mom about Bar’s intrusion, who then called 911. When police showed up, Ashley says Bar began “grabbing my barstools and putting them in front of my door trying to barricade the doors.”
“It scared the s— out of me because trigger-finger-happy-ass cops,” she continued. “I’m scared to open the door because, do they know I’m opening the door? The last thing I need is someone getting shot or getting really hurt.” The pair were able to safely get out of the house after Ashley told police Bar was going to cooperate.
More recently, in February 2025, Bar accepted a plea deal that resulted in a six-month jail sentence and a year of probation. He was also ordered to have no contact with Ashley and to undergo substance abuse evaluations. While Ashley appears to be moving on with her life – and someone new – she remains legally tied to Bar, as their divorce remains pending.
There Were Red Flags from the Beginning
No one could have predicted just how dark things would get between Bar and Ashley, not even the Teen Mom producers. But looking back, there were plenty of warning signs suggesting this relationship was doomed from the start.
For one, Ashley and Bar’s families have always been at odds. One of the first big clashes happened Ashley’s baby shower, where she got into a physical altercation with Bar’s mother, Shen Williams, who remains vocal to this day about her dislike for Ashley. She recently took to social media to blast Ashley, accusing her of conspiring with MTV producers to exaggerate the severity of Bar’s charges after the July 2024 Las Vegas incident, further proving their families have never seen eye to eye. Family gatherings have remained a source of conflict, including a now-infamous birthday party where Ashley’s sister and Bar tried fighting each other.
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Need another red flag? There’s also Bar’s criminal history, making his most recent arrest far from shocking.
In May 2021, just a month after their secret wedding, Bar was arrested for "willful discharge of a firearm in a negligent manner."
The following year, he faced felony charges as a fugitive from another state, stemming from the earlier firearm incident. Now, with his 2024 kidnapping charges, his criminal record has only grown. The 911 call from Ashley’s terrifying encounter has since been made public, sending shockwaves through the Teen Mom fanbase.
Should Teen Mom Keep Bar Off the Show?
It seems like Bar and Ashley are finally over for good, as she hasn’t rescinded the divorce – she says the only reason it was delayed is because she was late to court. While the proceedings remain ongoing, their separation is likely for the best. Bar hasn’t appeared on Teen Mom recently due to his incarceration, and honestly, MTV is better off keeping it that way.
The franchise has been known to bend its moral standards for ratings – like reintroducing Ryan Edwards despite his troubled past – but putting Bar back on the show would be equivalent to openly supporting a domestic abuser. Giving Ashley a platform to restart her life and share her experiences can be beneficial (to both her and viewers), but only if MTV keeps Bar out of the picture. And with the court-mandated, no-contact order, they may not have much of a choice. But you can bet fans will get all the details on their divorce, so long as Ashley gets a paycheck to spill.
