“He’s My Person”: Joan Opens Up About Building a Forever with Chock After The Golden Bachelorette

The Bachelor's latest spinoff, The Golden Bachelorette's had a memorable Season 1 finale. Since then, Joan Vassos and Chock Chapple have faced much scrutiny, but their love story has only grown stronger. The couple's journey began with instant chemistry on their first date, quickly discovering shared humor, values, and perspectives. When Joan awarded Chock her final rose and accepted his heartfelt proposal, it was clear: their connection was real.

While many reality TV romances fizzle out after the cameras stop rolling, Joan and Chock have proven their critics wrong. Through transparent communication, countless flights between Kansas and Maryland, and a commitment to making it work despite the miles, they've built a solid foundation. In a recent social media update, the couple showed that their bond is thriving — and that they're better together than ever.

Joan & Chock's "Four Month Check-In" Shows Their Love Is Stronger Than Ever

Four months after The Golden Bachelorette finale, Joan and Chock shared a candid Instagram video titled "Four Month Check-In." In it, they radiated happiness and discussed how their relationship has blossomed. Chock gushed while saying that he feels they have been married for two to five years, capturing the comfort and closeness they've developed. In a world where reality TV relationships often don't last, Joan and Chock set a new standard. Joan herself declared: "We're still together and better than ever."

One of the biggest challenges the couple faces is distance: Joan lives in Rockville, Maryland, while Chock calls Wichita, Kansas home. Neither has relocated — and for now, they’re okay with that. Despite the challenges, Joan and Chock make it a priority to see each other often. From holiday visits to spontaneous trips, their dedication is clear. No matter the miles, they refuse to let distance divide them. Their journey proves that, with patience and effort, love found on reality TV can thrive in the real world.

With grown children and fewer financial obligations, she encourages others to embrace this chapter: more time, more resources, and, most importantly, more freedom to enjoy love without pressure. While Joan is looking forward, she's also honoring her past. She continues to pay tribute to her late husband, John Vassos, who passed away in 2021, by participating in events like the PanCAN PurpleStride charity walk. Though Chock couldn't attend the recent event in Washington D.C., he remains supportive of Joan's efforts to raise awareness about pancreatic cancer — a testament to their mutual respect and understanding.

No Rush to the Altar — And That’s Perfectly Fine

In an exclusive interview with Us Weekly, Joan addressed fans' curiosity about wedding plans. While she and Chock are committed to each other, they aren't in a rush to walk down the aisle — and they're perfectly happy taking their time. Joan emphasized that building a strong foundation outside the spotlight is crucial: "We're spending time getting to know each other even more. There's no rush. I don't have a biological clock. I'm over that. I have four kids."

Unlike traditional Bachelor franchise couples who often feel pressure to marry quickly, Joan and Chock are relishing this stage of life, traveling, meeting each other's friends, and simply enjoying being together.

"I want to say, like, 'Let us be together! Let's just have fun and date!' We will get married, I just don't know when," Joan continued telling the interview with US Weekly. Joan hopes her journey inspires others, especially those navigating love later in life. "People dating at an older age, I don't think they realize how much fun it can be."

Joan Vassos and Chock Chapple are living proof that love can be found at any age, on any platform, and on any timeline. Their story isn't about rushing toward a wedding or performing for the cameras — it's about building a life together, one joyful step at a time. And from the looks of it, Joan and Chock are just getting started.

The Golden Bachelorette is currently airing on ABC every Wednesday. Episodes are also available on Hulu.