The Bachelor 29: Litia Garr Isn't Over Grant Ellis (She Has A Warning For Juliana)

   

Grant liked Litia from the moment she stepped out of the limousine on night one of The Bachelor season 29. The two connected almost instantly, and they spent the entire season falling in love. Grant even told Litia that he loved her. The problem was, he also told Juliana that he loved her. With Grant falling in love with two different women, it was only a matter of time before he broke one of their hearts. During the final rose, Grant gave Juliana his final rose, sending a shocked Litia home in tears. She's still not over the rejection.

A montage image of Grant Ellis and Litia Garr facing separate directions

Grant Ellis Seemed So Decisive...At First

He Changed His Mind Wildly Throughout The Season

From the start of The Bachelor season 29, Grant seemed indecisive and unsure of himself. He gave his first impression rose to 27-year-old Alexe Godin, then seemed to immediately forget about her. He gave one of his hometown dates to The Bachelor's Zoe McGrady, 27, who had barely seemed to notice before. His wildest swing was when he eliminated 31-year-old Dina Lupanco, who seemed to be one of his favorites. It's great to be open-minded, but Grant never seemed to know what he wanted.

Litia Was Sure She Would Win Grant Ellis' Final Rose

Did He Mislead Or Did She Misread?

Litia isn't the first woman to feel like she was misled by a Bachelor lead. She walked in to that final rose ceremony with confidence. Earlier, during the final episode, she looked right into the camera and expressed no doubt that she and Grant would be getting engaged soon. She was completely blindsided when Grant dumped her. During The Bachelor season 29 finale, Litia told Jesse that Grant had misled her. “Grant and I had talked a lot about that day, and everything that he had ever said about it was that it was going to be us,” Litia said.

"I’m not gonna sit up there and argue with her on stage about what she thought I said."

Grant didn't refute any of Litia's claims at the time. During The Bachelor season 29 finale, he let her say whatever she wanted to. Since then, he responded to her allegations in an exclusive with Us Weekly. In the interview, he said that he didn't agree with Litia's take on what happened. “But I let her speak her truth and her piece," Grant said. "I’m not gonna sit up there and argue with her on stage about what she thought I said."

Watching The Show Was Hard For Litia

"I'm Not Mad Anymore"

The Bachelor Season 29’s Grant Ellis and Litia Garr with serious expressions

It's been two months since The Bachelor season 29 finale aired, and Litia's still thinking about Grant. "I'm not mad anymore," she recently told Us Weekly during an exclusive interview. "It's disappointing and I desire accountability - I think that is all I really cared about." During the interview, Litia talked about her last few moments with Grant, after her elimination. According to Litia, they talked for 45 minutes after the breakup, so she feels like she got plenty of time to get everything off her chest.

Litia's Warning To Juliana

She Should "Have A Lot Of Questions"

image of The Bachelor's Juliana Pasquarosa and Litia Garr
 

It's easy to see how Litia can feel misled, but that doesn't mean Grant did anything wrong.

After feeling so misled by Grant, no one could blame Litia for struggling to move on from The Bachelor. It's not just the fact that he ended up choosing someone else, but that he blindsided her. It's easy to see how Litia can feel misled, but that doesn't mean Grant did anything wrong. Some fans have taken issue with the fact that Grant said he chose Juliana because their relationship was more "fun," but that doesn't mean it's not a serious relationship. Litia should try to move on quickly from her disappointment.