As season 10 of Vanderpump Rules was airing, Ariana discovered evidence that Tom, her boyfriend of a decade, had been having a months-long affair with her close friend and costar, Rachel Leviss. The show’s crew quickly picked up cameras to film an additional episode covering the breakup in real time, which saw over four million viewers and garnered the show a pair of Emmy nominations. But as gripping as this was to watch on TV, the real drama was unfolding off-screen.
Coverage of Scandoval on the show was responsive; what we watched on Vanderpump Rules was the fallout of the breakup, without any sort of on-screen lead-up. Though the relationship between Tom and Ariana no longer felt fully functional, it didn't necessarily seem obvious that they were headed for a split. The longtime couple had created a life with one another; they owned their home together, worked as business partners, and had become something of a branded power couple. Maybe it seemed more like a rough patch than the end of a relationship. Without a runway, Scandoval crash-landed onto Vanderpump Rules for one fleeting episode.
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Paige and Craig’s breakup, on the other hand, has been a well-crafted story unfurling across two separate shows. On Southern Charm’s tenth season, we watched Craig obliviously believe everything in his partnership was fine, and though he and his girlfriend disagreed on fundamentals such as where to live, when to marry and have children, and how successful Paige was allowed to be, he believed love was enough to carry them through. The subtext there was an expectation that Paige would have to give in and sacrifice her career goals, marry him, and become a mother much sooner than she’d like. Paige visited him in Charleston occasionally, noticeably annoyed at times, and beginning to withdraw. In the show’s finale, Craig is fresh off a relationship-ending phone call with Paige, allegedly blindsided.
In a recent episode, Paige wept to her best friend and housemate, Ciara Miller, as she expressed her anxiety and fears around the relationship. Ciara seems to give Paige the permission she’s struggling to give herself, but Paige is scared of how Craig (and the world) would respond if she were to end the relationship. On this season’s Southern Charm reunion, Andy Cohen asked the cast if they’re fearful of Craig, and several hands went up. Craig has been known to have anger issues and a superiority complex, and Paige is justified in feeling fearful of how he might react.
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Who knows how things have unfolded off camera and behind closed doors, but on screen, we’ve seen Craig direct his rage at Paige in the most southern way imaginable. In the south, the most cutting insults are delivered in dulcet tones. Though his delivery is always pleasant, anyone fluent in southern politeness can pick up on his coldness. Whenever he’s asked if Paige has cheated on him, he punishes her for breaking up with him by letting the question go unanswered. He leaves Paige vulnerable to Bravo audiences, who have proven they can’t be normal about anything, and love to project onto the interpersonal dynamics of people they’ve never met.
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Paige and Craig’s breakup began amicably and was not the result of cheating, abuse, or any sort of wrongdoing. It’s a harder pill to swallow that your relationship is over, not because your partner turned out to be a monster, but because circumstances simply won’t allow it. The result of their breakup much more closely mirrors what happens in real life — their friends were there to support them, a few who were stuck in the middle awkwardly shuffle to one side or the other, a bitter ex-boyfriend’s resentment blooms because he didn’t get what he wanted, a woman is heavily scrutinized, rumors swirl, life goes on. No one really profited or suffered to any extreme. It’s a more complex narrative to navigate as a viewer because of its realism.
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